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Who made it a rule that Valentine’s is only for couples? This year ditch the cliché and make Valentine’s Day all about you. Being a single girlie isn’t a reason for you not to celebrate Valentine’s. In fact, the idea of Valentine’s is love and you deserve love even if you have to give it to yourself. Therefore, let’s dive into 20 self-love activities you can do for Valentine’s if you’re a single girlie.
1. Buy Yourself Flowers
Girl, you deserve flowers, even if you have to give them to yourself. So, head to a florist shop or market and buy your favorite flowers. In addition, they will add a pop of color into your home while filling the air with its marvelous scent.
2. Cook Your Favorite Meal
Whether it’s as simple as mac and cheese or as elaborate as lamb chops with mashed potatoes and asparagus on the side, make a meal that you love and would savor every bite of. Pair your meal with a fancy mocktail, cocktail, or some wine.
In addition, to set the mood light candles, play some soft jazz music in the background, and dress yourself up.
3. Have a Relaxing Night-In
Bring romance to your home by having a relaxing night in. Take a soothing candlelit bubble bath, indulge in skincare, journal, watch your favorite comforting movie, and meditate.
4. Write a Self-Love Letter
Another self-love activity you can do alone for Valentine’s Day is writing yourself a love letter. Express your feelings towards yourself by writing a love letter acknowledging how far you’ve come and grown. In your writing, commemorate your inner and outer beauty and strengths and what makes you unique. Also, in your love letter, mention the reasons why you love yourself.
Revisit this letter often, especially when you don’t feel your best.
5. Buy Yourself a Gift
Valentine’s is the ideal time to purchase something that has caught your eye for a while. However, make sure it is meaningful to you. Whether it’s a book, skincare or makeup product, or even a journal, celebrate Valentine’s Day by buying yourself a present.
6. Have a Valentine’s Theme Photoshoot
One of the things to do as a single woman on Valentine’s Day is to take a Valentine’s Photoshoot. Who says a Valentine’s photoshoot only has to be for couples? If you’re a photogenic girlie, this is a fun way to enjoy your Valentine. Hence, take pictures that capture your beauty and confidence.
Also, you can have an at-home photoshoot and post your favorite shots on your social media page.
Whether it’s an at-home photoshoot or in-studio we can’t deny, as women, it’s fun to dress up and get our hair and makeup done to take photos.
Here’s an at-home Valentine’s Photoshoot idea created by khloekuriatnyk on YouTube:
7. Outdoor Activities
If you enjoy being outdoors consider doing outdoor self-love activities for Valentine’s. You can set up a cute and romantic picnic at the beach or in a park, indulge in outdoor painting, or watch the sunset. In addition, if you’re an active person, you can go hiking or bike riding.
8. Go on a Mini Staycation
Enjoy your Valentine’s alone by going on a mini staycation. Whether at a hotel or a cozy Airbnb, it is refreshing to switch up your scenery.
Also, take advantage of the room service and pamper yourself with a spa day at the hotel.
9. Create a Self-Love Wall
Another of the self-love activities you can do for Valentine’s Day is creating a self-love wall. Write affirmations and quotes that resonate with you and things you love about yourself on sticky notes and place them on your wall. You can add new sticky notes throughout the day.
In addition, revisit this wall to remind you of your self-worth each day.
10. Book a Fancy Solo Dinner Date
One of the things to do as a single woman on Valentine’s Day is eating at a fancy restaurant. It might be a little intimidating to go to a restaurant solo on Valentine’s Day. However, remember that tonight is your night and you’re on a date with the most amazing woman in the world (yourself). So, wear that beautiful dress that hugs your curves, get glammed up, and enjoy and appreciate being in your own company.
11. Go to a Bookstore or Library
Is it just me, or is there something so romantic about going to a bookstore or library to pick out books to read? For Valentine’s, consider visiting your local bookstore or library and browse the shelves to find books you want to read. Find a cozy spot in the library or bookstore and immerse yourself in the book’s pages
12. Sign Up and Attend a Workshop or Class
Spend time alone for Valentine’s Day by booking and attending a workshop or class. Taking a workshop or class this Valentine is a great way to invest in yourself. Whether you attend a baking, cooking, or painting class it’s a great way to learn new skills and knowledge.
13. Book a Crafting Session
Booking a crafting class is a memorable self-love Valentine’s Day activity where you can create a Valentine’s gift for yourself. Hence, consider booking a perfume-making, rug-tufting, or pottery class while enjoying the therapeutic feeling it brings.
14. Have a Movie or Series Marathon
One of the self-love activities you should consider doing for Valentine’s Day is having a movie marathon or TV series. Binge-watch rom-com movies or series that uplift you and make you feel good. Also, set the scenery with throw pillows, starlights, and blankets while feasting on some popcorn.
15. Create a Memory Jar
Grab a mason jar, a pen, and some paper, write down memories you’ve had that make you smile, laugh, and proud, and place them in the jar. In addition, revisit this jar, especially on tough days, and add new memories throughout the year.
16. Try Something New
Spend time alone for Valentine’s Day by stepping out of your comfort zone and trying something new. Whether you want to learn how to knit, do photography, or simply a new recipe, learning new things causes you to discover new things and abilities within yourself which allows you to get to know yourself better.
17. Spend the Night Stargazing
Imagine being wrapped up in a cozy blanket, drinking a hot beverage while admiring the stars. Stargazing is one of those self-love activities that feel mystical yet romantic. It makes you feel grateful and appreciate the beauty of nature.
In addition, to make your stargazing experience even better, if you own a telescope this is an ideal time to use it.
18. Have a Candlelit Yoga Session
Deem your light, light some candles, turn on some calming music, and enjoy the relaxation of yoga. It is a calming way to connect with your inner self. Therefore, consider having a self-guided one at home.
There are numerous videos on YouTube dedicated to guiding you through a relaxing candlelit at-home yoga session.
Here’s a video created by Boho Beautiful Yoga on YouTube:
19. Get Dress Up for Yourself
Girl, wear your favorite outfit even if you’re staying at home. It’s not to please others but to please yourself. Wear something that makes you feel confident.
In addition, do your hair and makeup. You deserve to look good for yourself.
20. Try New Hobbies
Whether you’re trying to learn how to skate, play the piano, knit, or rock climb, nurture a new passion or interest that will expand your horizon. So, dedicate spending time alone for Valentine’s Day by trying a hobby you’ve always wanted to try.
Wrapping Things Up
This year flip the script and make Valentine’s a day filled with self-love. Hence, fall in love with yourself by trying one or a few of these self-love activities for Valentine’s. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day memorable.
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